There is always a power struggle though I'll grant you that. I think that I'm just not good with power. I tend give it away as soon as I get it. I can never be a Delilah.

I've always loved the Idea of the femme fatale, but I have yet to see one in reality. I feel like the myth sets women up for failure and disappointment. maybe a particular woman can achieve femme fataledom in particular moments with particular men, but the whole myth of women owning complete control over men when they want it is just a myth.

Usually when a woman actually decides with intent that she wants something from a man, she generally overcomplicates things to the point that she doesn't know which way is north. Then by the time she's wiser and actually knows what to do she's fifty and no longer attractive or in the position to do so. That's the sad flaw in the system. (However, if a woman only kindof wants something from a man the process is a little easier.)

Though being a woman does have its advantages, the Delilah theory is generally not one that we can bank on without taking huge risks.

Though I wish it were true and I would like to approve, men, no matter how disappointing you're love life may be, this theory is grossly over simplified. As a beautiful woman myself, i find it hopelessly difficult to manipulate men. It never works. Most of them do what they want regardless of my wishes adding insult to injury. The minute I give up holding out and let them know I like them they're gone.

Also not all women are beautiful

There is certainly some truth to this.